Picture Perfect: 8 Photos to Skip in Your Dating Profile
Online dating is all about creating an awesome first impression. Your photos are the stars of the show. They say a picture's worth a thousand words, and that's never more true than in the world of dating apps and websites. Your choice of photos is vital because, in the blink of an eye, a potential match can swipe left. So, let's talk about eight kinds of photos that are better off not making it to your dating profile to make sure you nail that first impression.
1. Bathroom and Mirror Selfies:
We get it; you want to flaunt yourself when you're feeling on top of the world. But trust me, nobody's interested in seeing your toilet or bathtub in the background. Bathroom selfies can make you look immature and self-absorbed. And those shirtless gym mirror selfies? Usually a big no-no.
2. Extreme Close-Ups:
While close-up shots can accentuate your features, going too close can be a turn-off. Think about the composition; you want your potential matches to see more than just an eye or part of your face. Give them a chance to get the full picture of your smile and personality.
3. Party or Clubbing Photos:
Photos of you partying, clubbing, or drinking excessively don't send the right message. It's okay to show your fun side, but too many party pics can make you seem more into a night out than a meaningful connection. Find a balance between having fun and showcasing your other interests.
4. Overly Serious or Angry Expressions:
Your dating profile should ooze positivity and approachability. Skip the photos where you look too serious or angry; they can give off the wrong vibe and make potential matches hesitant to connect. Opt for pics that show your friendly, open, and welcoming side.
5. Pets That Aren't Yours:
Pets are cute, no doubt about it. But if the adorable animal in your photo isn't actually yours, it can lead to confusion and derail conversations. Keep it straightforward and showcase your own interests.
6. Filtered Photos:
Your photos should show the real you. Heavily filtered or edited pictures might grab attention initially but often lead to disappointment during a real-life meeting. Be yourself, and the right match will appreciate your authenticity.
7. Group Shots with friends and family:
You don't want your potential match to play a detective trying to figure out who you are. While group shots give off a social vibe, they can lead to confusion and comparisons. Keep it simple and focus on solo shots.
8. Photos with Children:
Honesty is crucial in your profile, but it's usually best to keep pictures of your kids private. Their safety and privacy come first. Avoid photos of other people's children too, even if they're family members; it can send mixed messages and might not sit well with their parents.
In the world of online dating, your photos should give a real glimpse of who you are and what you love.
Remember, your photos are an extension of your profile, a way to show your personality, hobbies, and lifestyle. Let people get to know you without anything obscuring your true self.
Xo
your matchmaker,
Danielle Victoriah